It’s February Already?! + Weekend Recap
It’s February already?! So fast! T_T New Year’s felt like just yesterday, and somehow, we’re already a month into 2025. I don’t know where the time went.
This weekend, my boyfriend and I went bouldering as usual. I feel like my stamina drains way too fast, but at least I’m slowly improving. Climbing is such a weird mix of fun and frustrating—some days, I feel strong, and other days, even the easiest holds feel impossible. But at least we’re doing it together, and that makes it worth it.
Finally, the Talk
Today (Sunday), we finally had the talk with my boyfriend’s female best friend. Setting some boundaries was long overdue. I’ve struggled with this situation since December, when I found out they were still very close, and honestly, it has been an emotional rollercoaster.
I know my boundaries are strict, but their friendship was not healthy. I don’t believe men and women can be best friends without one catching feelings at some point. And beyond that… I just really hate her. She’s been lying on her boyfriend for over 10 years, lying to him like it’s nothing. That kind of person isn’t someone I can respect.
The call went well, though. It was difficult for them to distance themselves, but I truly think it’s for the best. To make things clear, I set these boundaries:
- No private interactions (texting, calling, or meeting one-on-one).
- If necessary (like Happy Birthday), messages should only be sent in a group chat with all three of us. The tone should be neutral—no hidden messages, no unnecessary warmth.
- No emotional dependency—deep topics should stay within our relationship.
- Keep interactions brief and polite in group settings, no extended personal conversations.
- Be fully transparent if she reaches out—no secret conversations. No reminiscing, inside jokes, or maintaining an emotional connection.
- Social media interactions should be minimal and neutral. I know this sounds strict, but I don’t think these are unreasonable expectations for a committed relationship. They had a dynamic that didn’t feel right, and I’m not going to pretend otherwise.
People Actually Read This??
I’m honestly so happy that people are reading my posts, even though I just write random personal stuff here. I always feel like my blog is boring because it’s nothing special—no deep thoughts, no educational content, just me rambling. But still, people read and even leave comments. Thank you. It really makes me happy.
I want to reply to the comments in my guestbook, but not everyone has one. Maybe I’ll start sending email replies instead? It’s been such a long time since I’ve done this kind of blogging, and it feels so nostalgic. Like going back to the old internet days.
New Domain + No More Annoying Ads!
Oh! I finally changed my domain—blog.biyori.cafe 🎉 Yay! It feels so much more me now. Also, I caved and paid for the premium version of my guestbook because the ads were getting way too annoying. Now it actually looks clean. Small things, but they make me happy.
So that was my weekend. February is moving fast, but at least I’m keeping up (sort of). Let’s see what happens next.